Love will immediately enter into any mind that truly wants it.
(p. 55) —A Course In Miracles
We pick our vibrational frequency. We decide what we see when we look, what we feel as we experience and what we hear as Life is speaking to us. We choose our vibration we send out into the world and we pick what vibrational frequency we will receive back. The only true frequency is the vibrational frequency of Love. All the rest is noise and reactionary fear-based emotions. It’s like the fuzzy sound on an old radio as you try to tune into your desired channel. Love is the desired channel. All the rest is fuzzy noise, it’s not real. It’s nothing. Nothing happened. Once we can break free from reactions and fear, we can raise our energy vibration and watch it go out before us to transform all that is around us. We are no longer at the mercy of what levels everyone else is vibrating at. We can use our energy wisely and bring more love into every encounter, thought or action.
An interesting thing about Love — you cannot feel it from outside yourself, no matter how much is coming your way. Love comes from within. We cannot experience it outside of us without generating it and sharing it from within. No matter how someone else loves us, we cannot feel it until we have experienced the love within. This is how loneliness is possible. Loneliness is simply the outcome of not generating the love within; it is turning away from the source within and instead trying to find it outside of ourselves. Love cannot be found outside of us, only within. Love is our true essence, it is what we are. Once we can dwell in the frequency of love, we can no longer experience loneliness because we are never without the source of Love within.
Feeling lonely can be a blessing. It can make us figure out what we have within. We must feel it and figure out what it is telling us. If we run from it, it will only worsen. From the time I was a small child I had what felt like a deep sadness and the only way I could explain it was to call it “the lonely feeling.” I was tortured by my loneliness and I found it so very difficult to understand at a young age. I was often surrounded by people who loved me when I was feeling it and it felt like the worst feeling in the world. To be lonely in the company of others is deadening. It felt like an overwhelming urge to cry without a known reason why. Now, I am so grateful I suffered with these feelings because that suffering brought me to seeking for meaning at an early age. It also brought me to make many mistakes along the way as I tried to ease my loneliness. Lucky for me, I believe that sometimes mistakes are simply shortcuts to figuring out what we need to learn. I learned a lot throughout the years, sometimes repeating mistakes and sometimes hearing the messages. This lonely feeling continued to be my background hole I would sink into in tough times. Until I was able to understand that it was me choosing and creating it, it plagued me.
Life has been teaching me to turn towards Love and away from the lonely feeling over the years. Life has shown me that the Love I can turn to is actually the real me. Life has shown me that I Am much more than I ever dreamed possible and so is everyone else. Life has shown me that I can’t make that choice for others, they must generate their love from within as well; that way they can meet their real selves. God/Universe designed the perfect love curriculum for us!
There are many types of love. People like to label the different versions. I am not really interested in labeling love anymore. I just want to dwell in it and use my energy to help others do the same. The key to using your love energy well is to expect it to work. We must expect it to go out before us and surround us. We must be centered, calm, still and sure of our intentions. We must stay in the frequency of who we are and not sway into reactions over our outer circumstances. We must expect that we can dwell in love and act from love at all times. When we feel drained, we must learn to replenish and get back into the frequency of love right away. We don’t need to waste any more time in the fuzzy noise of life. Let’s Love. Let’s Live.
Accessing Love Ideas:
Look deeply in the face of another.
Watch a child play.
Look at flowers in stillness.
Stand by a tree and feel its energy.
Wishing you joy, smiles, laughter and Love for all. Be you! Be Love!